Philosophical thoughts

this one is for those of us that believe that we are reborn when we die. If you choose your parents and your name before your born. Than what is your souls given name when it comes into existence?  

I m starting to discover that I chose, I made the decision to come through, I chose her to be my mother and him for my brother. I can't tell you why, Just know that much is true. I chose my name too and hated it so far. I made the choices that have placed me where I am today. I need to take control and take back my soul.  For way too long there's been something missing in me. It feels like a deep and endless agony. Searching to find the higher self, inner peace, and learning to finally love myself.:)